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My husband says I’m no longer his spec – Woman cries her eyes out after 15 years of marriage(Video)



After 15 years, my husband says I’m no longer his spec – Mother-of-four cries her eyes out (Video)

A Nigerian woman has taken to social media to share a heartbreaking video of herself in tears, following a shocking revelation made by her husband.

The married lady, who has been together with her husband for 15 years, disclosed that he recently informed her that she was no longer his “spec” or desired type.

In the viral video, the distraught woman can be seen with bloodshot red eyes, a clear indication of the intense crying she had experienced.

As she sobs uncontrollably, she can be heard singing along to Flavour’s song “Mosh High,” which features his adopted son, Semah.

In the caption accompanying the emotional clip, the woman expressed her deep sadness and disbelief at her husband’s devastating statement.

She also revealed that they share four children together, making the revelation even more painful for her to bear.


“After 15 years in marriage with 4 children he said I am not his spec,” the caption read.



See the video below:

The video has garnered significant attention and sympathy from social media users, who have expressed their support and offered words of encouragement to the heartbroken woman.

Many have criticized the husband’s insensitive remark, emphasizing the need for empathy and understanding within marriages.

Read some comments…

joyceisy; All these TikTok people. We can’t differentiate the truth from the lies. But if this is true, it’s really heartbreaking 💔 😢


9jasingle: There is a way a man will treat a woman, she will give up on him and concentrate on her kids. This is the lowest low some men has gone and where they has reduced wives EFFORTS TO.

HE HAS FINALLY UNLEASHED WHAT WILL BE HARD TO AMEND. The masculinity in her HEART now is brought out by the rejection. Don’t worry. She has settled for the kids not him anymore. That’s women for you. Take to the banks. I said what I said.


abjluxuryhub; immediately he said that to you, you tell that you have been managing him for a very long time

_peaceful_baddie; That’s why I don’t take any risk to trust any man oooo in any relationship… I rather date my gender for my own sanity… men are high key sc@m

nenyenwa_____; TikTok is another world on its own, believe whatever you see their at your own risk😂

emmalex.banky; I don’t just comments this here, nobody knows the fights and wars in their homes, you only see one party coming out here on social media to complain, do you know the chaos in the home?

Maybe the man is not comfortable with the situation anymore and has chosen to part ways with her, nobody knows, people gets tired of their partner especially when they change, for example; if the woman i married 10 years ago suddenly changed and started portraying herself as a god or something else and after talking she doesn’t change, then I will move on immensely, life’s too short to be in a toxic relationship or marriage.

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