Keeping up with the In-Laws: Funke Adejumo trends

In her recent sermon at her church, Funke Adejumo offered a detailed guide on appropriate behavior for women during their inaugural visit to their future in-laws’ home. She emphasized the importance of cultural sensitivity and suggested various protocols to observe during the encounter.

“For that first trip, don’t go overboard with gifts. A basket of fruits or a simple wrapper for mama would suffice,” Adejumo advised.

“In my culture, we kneel to greet elders. So, as a Yoruba girl, remain on your knees and avoid direct eye contact until they instruct you to rise.”

She further advised women to take the first available seat upon entering, refrain from wandering around the house, and maintain modest attire to avoid any discomfort or scrutiny.

Funke Adejumo emphasized the need for diplomacy in responses to questions and urged women not to interrupt conversations or finish their meals if served tough meat.

“Your visit is akin to an entrance exam, and how you conduct yourself matters,” Adejumo stated. “Be mindful of your actions, including washing your dishes after meals.”

The clergywoman’s counsel has ignited contrasting reactions on social media, with some commending her for promoting cultural respect and diplomacy, while others criticize the notion of pretense to gain approval from prospective in-laws.

While supporters applaud Adejumo’s advice as a strategic approach to fostering positive impressions, detractors argue that individuals should be authentic rather than conforming to societal expectations.

The video has sparked a broader conversation about the intricacies of navigating family dynamics and cultural norms in Nigerian society, particularly within the context of marriage and familial relationships.