“Why I friend-zoned my husband for over one year” – Actress Adesua Etomi

Popular Nigerian actress, Adesua Etomi has disclosed why she friend-zoned her husband, and singer Banky Wellington, popularly known as Banky W, for a year before accepting his proposal of marriage.

The actress revealed this while speaking about the early stages of their relationship in September at Waterbrook Church in Lagos.

The actress, 35, initially friend-zoned him as she was unsure of God’s plan for their relationship.

Her words,

“I would like to say that friendship plays a very big role in laying the foundation of your relationship. I friend-zoned my husband for a year and half [laughs].

“I friend-zoned him for two reasons. One, I wasn’t sure that I have heard from God about whether this person was actually my person. Actually, three reasons. Second, marrying Banky W [laughs]. I was like, ‘my life on my own is chaotic enough, I would now marry Banky? No, no, no.’

And then thirdly, just trying to at least have a friendship. And I honestly believe that the friendship we laid over a year and half has played a very big role in how our relationship is today. Banky W is my guy. I mean if you take away romance and sex and everything that makes a marriage, he would still be my guy. Banky is my best friend.”

Banky W interjected: “No, leave s.x. Don’t take it away [laughs].”

The celebrity couple tied the knot in November 2017 and welcomed their first child in January 2021.