‘The Christian Man Should Pray For His Cheating Wife’ – Writer, Alabi Weighs In On Oritsejafor’s Marriage Saga

A Nigerian writer and author have weighed in as she addressed the double standards set for Christian men and women in marriage.

The Nigerian writer, identified as Alabi Oyinkasola, said when a Christian woman has a partner who cheats, she is usually expected to pray for him, whereas when the case is reversed, the man dumps her immediately.

In a tweet on the microblogging platform Twitter, the writer said it should be appropriate for the man who catches his wife cheating to be a good Christian and pray for demons to depart from his home instead of opting for divorce.

This is coming amid the rumor making rounds on the grounds that the former Christian Association of Nigeria, CAN, Ayo Oritsejakor has separated from his wife, Helen  Oritsejakor for alleged fidelity. [Read HERE if you missed it].

Alabi, in a post on her Twitter account, wondered if God is no longer against divorce or is it only allowed when a woman is a guilty person.

She wrote; ”Christian women have been sentenced to WAR ROOM for years to pray for cheating men but the moment a Christian man catches his wife cheating, he divorces her.

Can’t he pray too? Can’t he bind the demons that want to destroy his home? Or has God stopped hating divorce?”

Christian women have been sentenced to WAR ROOM for years to pray for cheating men but the moment a Christian man catches his wife cheating, he divorces her.

Can't he pray too? Can't he bind the demons that want to destroy his home? Or has God stopped hating divorce?

— Oyinkansola Alabi (Dr.) (@EmotionsDoctor) December 8, 2022

Read some comments…

@AdeOLUWA888; Maybe women will learn to “decondition” themselves from accepting cheating as some evil spirit that latches on “poor/helpless” men. Cheating is NOT an incurable disease you have to help “your man” manage. It is a CHOICE and sometimes a DECISION — which they are well aware of.

@Eion7; Statistically more than 80% of women initiate divorce so the War Room analogy is not really a “gotcha” as you think it is.. 🤔

@Echochant; It is now a world of equality, a woman can divorce a cheating husband or are majority of divorce cases now not initiated by women? No need bringing GOD into it, divorce if you want to divorce,unfortunately women fight to remain with wealthy adulterous husbands

@Dmindaffairs; Women should divorce their cheating husbands; men should divorce their cheating wives. 50-50. Case closed.