Nigerian man reveals unique measures to avoid cheating and remain faithful to wife
In a bid to remain faithful to his wife, a Nigerian man identified as Joshua Kesena has shared the measures he takes to avoid cheating.
Taking to Twitter, Joshua revealed that he uses pictures of his wife and children as the wallpaper on all his gadgets to constantly remind him of what he stands to lose if he cheats.
He also stated that his wife has access to his email, social media accounts, and phone, which means he cannot cheat in private.
Joshua, who has been married for a while, advised men who want to be faithful to their partners to be extra cautious and take necessary measures to avoid cheating.
Read his full post below,
“To be honest, the way this world is set up, any man who wants to be faithful to his wife has to be somewhat extra. This isn’t a rule of thumb but I have put certain parameters in place to make sure alarms go off if the temptation is too close for comfort.
An image of what is at stake is always on my mind. My smartwatch, phone, laptop and WhatsApp DP, and chat wallpaper is always a picture of my wife or my wife and daughter. This reminds me that their huge smiles can turn upside down with just one mistake.
I am Accountable to my wife. She is signed into my email account, my social media accounts and she has the password to my phone. Anywhere that the temptation wants to come from in an online form, e no fit hide. sin thrives in secrecy.
I make sure to bring up my wife in every conversation I have with the opposite sex. If the relationship is the counseling type, the person must know my wife. Every counseling session must take place with my wife close by. If she’s unavailable that day, counselling won’t hold.
I relax by watching Chelsea FC thrash everyone else, my wife relaxes by watching Rom Coms. I taught my wife everything about soccer, she taught me everything about why rom-coms are not cringe-worthy. Now we both enjoy being part of each other’s hobbies
This has helped us spend more time together as friends who really enjoy each other’s company. She’s a Chelsea FC Stan now and can converse in fluent “Soccer-nese” and I really, REALLY enjoy rom-coms.
Most importantly, I love my wife. I love everything about her. I don’t want to not have this much access into her personal space. So I’m going to do everything in my power to make sure I don’t lock myself out just because of lust. She’s worth more to me than a cheap thrill.”
His tweet has garnered several reactions from people on social media, with many praising him for his commitment to his marriage and sharing similar measures they have taken to avoid cheating.