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Factors That Can Destroy Marriages

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– Dealing with misunderstandings in marriages

– Being maritally responsible and accountable

– Building up a strong and healthy union

FACTORS THAT CAN DESTROY MARRIAGES

Marriage is in fact a major institution set up by God himself with the intention that everything works perfectly well, it could be demanding and you could begin to feel an overwhelming sense of responsibility in nurturing and showing love to your family.

Handling marriage as God has intended is essential if you must enjoy success in your marriage.

We need be careful how we handle situations in our marriage since we are bound to experience some ups and downs in our marriage, nevertheless, taking full responsibility without allowing certain situations ruin your marriage will make you happier and fulfilled in your marriage. Here are those destructive things to avoid in your marriage.

LIVING ABOVE YOUR STANDARD

When couples fail to live based on their means, attempting to rise above their standard it becomes very difficult to record success in marriage, this is not to say that you should never aspire to get better but be sure you are not living outside of what you can afford. appreciate each other and make the best of what you both have, quit complaining and kill every lavish desire, be contented with what you have .

PLACING EVERY AND ANYTHING BEFORE YOUR MARRIAGE

When you place other things such as your career, and interests above and ahead of your spouse in marriage, what you are doing is treating your marriage as unimportant and less significant and this could be destroying your union without you knowing it. Treat your partner with care and show them all of the love they deserve to get, this would make your union healthy and lively.

When criticism becomes constant, it becomes difficult to establish peace and happiness in a relationship.Establishing negativity in your union and viewing everything and anything that comes from your spouse as negative could be destroying your relationship. Encourage yourself, you cannot always expect everything to be perfect you can only strive hard to make things work out as expected.

LACK OF AFFECTION

Lack of intimacy in marriage could pose a threat to marriage longevity, couples need to display physical affection for each other.Doing this would give room for more understanding and make their union lovelasting.

NEGLECTING YOUR SPOUSE’S LOVE LANGUAGE

Everyone has got a love language, however getting to discover your spouse’s love language in view of walking towards understanding them is extremely important. Try as much as possible to engage your spouse in effective communications, communicate your feelings to one another and be honest about it.

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