how to create for yourself a perfect day

Have you ever asked yourself what your ideal day looks like? While your average day may seem very far from your ideal day, you realize that the gap between your average and my ideal day is not that big. If you want to turn almost every average day into a perfect day, it just takes a little bit more effort and quite a different view on everyday life.

The clearer the picture you have of what you want in life and the more you stay flexible about how it will manifest, the easier it is to strategise, think and fight for what you want which is why knowing what your ideal day looks like so important.

Elements of your perfect day

We are all different, but we all have a common purpose for why we are here on earth. The three major reasons are;

• to grow – personal improvement,
• to contribute – creating value and
• to enjoy life – deep connections with people and nature;

How we achieve these areas is completely up to every one of us. But if you want to feel happy, you have to see how you progress in life, you need to create, and you need to enjoy life. Now we can easily connect the purpose of life every one of us has with how your ideal day should look like. If you pursue personal development on all levels and also pursue contribution and enjoyment in everyday life, you will feel happy and fulfilled.

Personal growth

To feel good, you have to see and feel the progress you are making in life. There are many ways and directions for how you can improve yourself and grow, and you have to find your personal mission that will enable you that growth. You must know what personal growth means to you. The more you grow and the more your comfort zone expands, the more complex and demanding are the challenges you want to face. You move forward, you improve, you level up your skills.

There is a simple rule in life: Either you move forward or you go backwards and going forward feels much better. Growing, improving, having a positive outlook and having a plan for what to fight for brings feelings of fulfilment and excitement in life. Thus your everyday should consist of different things that enable you to grow and evolve.

Contribution to personal life

To be happy and fulfilled, you need to have deep and loving relationships in your life. If you want to have deep relationships, you have to first build your capacity for love. Then you must invest and contribute to the relationships as much as possible and expect that your needs will be met as. You need to develop strong and close connections with your partner, children and your friends. Superior communication is the key to everything in relationships. A lack of communication leads to misunderstandings in expectations as well as to arguing and insecurity. Contributing to relationships means investing your time, energy, creativity and other resources. As there are highs, so there are lows in life, but love and contribution go hand in hand. You don’t need a lifetime guarantee for anything in life: experiencing love, deep connections and mutual contribution in a specific moment is enough all by itself.

Enjoying life

One of the important reasons why we are here is also to enjoy life. Smart work is only one side of the coin. The other part is playing, relaxing and simply enjoying big and small things in life. If we can connect enjoying life with personal and business contribution and personal growth, that’s even better. From spending some fun time with our children to playing football on the field. It’s a total win-win.

And what does your ideal day look like? Share with us in the comment section.