10 reminders that will stop You from Judging People

We often judge people without realizing it. When we are judging everyone and everything, we are learning nothing. First, you must bring awareness to the fact that you are doing it. Regardless of the reason, we don’t have a right to judge anyone. Most people don’t notice their own mistakes, instead they strive to find and point out someone else’s mistakes.

You should remember these when you are in such a position to want to judge others;

1. Look within first. When two people meet, the prize always goes to the one with the most self-insight.  He or she will be calmer, more confident, and more at ease with the other.

2. Don’t be lazy and make judgments about people. Be kind.  Ask about their stories.    Be humble.  Be open.  Be teachable.  Be a good neighbor.

3. There is a story behind every person. There is a reason why they are the way they are.  Think about that, and respect them for who they are.

4. The way we treat people we strongly disagree with is a report card on what we’ve learned about love, compassion and kindness.

5. Do your best to maintain sincere love in your heart. The more you see the good in other people, the more good you will uncover in yourself.

6. Be present. Be kind.  Compliment people.  Magnify their strengths, not their weaknesses.  This is how to make a difference.

7. We all take different roads seeking fulfillment and joy. Just because someone isn’t on your road, doesn’t mean they’re lost.

8. It’s OK to be upset but it’s never OK to be cruel. In disagreements with others, deal only with the present situation.  Don’t bring up the past or any other form of drama.

9. The most memorable people in your life will be the ones who loved you when you were not very lovable. Remember this, and return the favor when you’re able.

10. No matter what happens, be good to the people around you. Being good to people is a peaceful way to live, and a beautiful legacy to leave behind.