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Everything in our lives is a choice, even doing nothing. At any moment we have hundreds of decision making options, some significant and some seemingly insignificant. We cannot really run away from making choices and decisions in our day to day lives. If we try hand over responsibility of decision to others we are often setting up a situation where we can blame them if things don’t go our way. The mind is trained to react to certain situations in a certain way. You fail a test?  You get mad at yourself. You are running late for work?  You get worried. These are all things that happen to millions of people every day and you can either react instinctively to the negative things in your life with further negativity, or you can choose to embrace these experiences in a different way.

In every moment we can pick a new direction; how to act, how to react etc. as well as how these decisions will affect you and how you will affect others. These choices are not made only once but every moment of every day. These decisions mould and sculpt your experiences and actions in the moment and eventually your life. Life is in your control.  What you value, what you believe in, what you do every day is not determined by someone else.  It does not matter what your family or friends tells you.  YOU have the ability to control your destiny. You can make anything you want to happen, happen. Just make the choice.

Everyone’s definition of success is different, but it’s up to us to decide whether we will win or lose during the pursuit of our life goals. Your decision to succeed is the single most important decision you will ever make in achieving your goals. Make that one change today that your future self with thank you for

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