Signs That Signifies Infatuation Not Love

– Do love really grow so fast?
– Infatuation is rootless and shallow

There are times you meet someone and you just feel like you can’t survive another day without that person.Do love really grow so fast? This could be considered the infatuation stage most people mistake for love. Infatuation is rootless and shallow, which needs to be given time to grow into a deep feelings.

Check these signs to know if you are just infatuated

You start stalking them
Infatuation is immature while love is mature. You start stalking them on social medias by liking all their pictures, dropping comments and compliments.

You start imaging them as your life partner
It takes time for love to grow, imaging them already as your partner is not too good. You like someone the first sight but it love takes time.

You start feeling lonely when they are not around
Love does not rid you of your happiness even when the person is not around. Infatuation makes you want to be with them all the time.

Your life reflect around this person
You put a stop to your personal life and work, it could even make you quarrel with your friends. Love is about the two of you sacrificing and growing together.

It makes you feel insecure
Love makes you feel secured and have confidence in your partner. Love builds trust and loyalty. Infatuation gives you this sense of insecurity and jealousy.

It makes you obsessive
Love makes you reason correctly, infatuation on the other hand, makes you do irrational things.

You want them all to yourself
You see friends and families as distractions and a treat to you. Love want to know all your friends and family and not drive them away.         Source: Naijapr.com