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Avoid Doing These During Courtship For A Happy Marriage

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– This time is considered the best and delicate time of your relationship.
– Work on how to make the bond between you stronger.

It best to spend some quality time with your partner especially if you just got engaged. This is considered the best and delicate time of your relationship. What you do now could either make you relationship sweeter and give you a happy marriage to look forward to or make it a strenuous relationship. Also, you need to be cautious about your actions, avoid things that could result in arguments or that could call off the marriage. Try to be yourself but be careful during your courtship period to live happily with your partner.

Here are the things to avoid:

Open up gradually
It is a good thing not to hid anything from your partner before marriage but it should be done bit by bit to avoid rejection and arguments. Work on making the bond between you stronger. Give time to understand your comfort zones.

Let the future settle itself
Trying to settle the future that is not here yet could be strenuous for you. Focus on the wedding preparations. Stay away from this conversation unless it is extremely important. Try to engage in conversations that will make your partner comfortable and feel closer to you.

Give some space
Give enough space to your partner during this period, choking them could be dangerous to your relationship. Make time to develop individually.

Be yourself
It important to focus on each other at this point. Don’t hide your character or personality from your partner. Tell them what they re doing that you don’t like and don’t pretend to be comfortable with whatever they are doing. Open up to your partner because you will be spending the remain part of your life with them.
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Communication
Make the communication stronger, exchange romantic messages. The best form of communication is believe to be the verbal communication. It makes you express your real self and avoid misinterpretation.

Be practical
Allow your partner to be themself in the relationship. Let your emotions take the lead sometimes. Don’t try and force the relationship into what it has never been. You don’t have to react to everything your partner say or do. It not necessary you both have to like the same thing.

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